Two quick things that I've come across multiple times in the last week (I'm back from my travels but have a cold/ flu thingy that has kept me pretty much out of action ever since I got back).

Illusive/ elusiveThe word you are looking for is nearly always "elusive", which means hard to find or achieve. "Illusive" means deceptive or illusory. It's ( Read more... )

I've had some health issues in the last couple of months, and am currently in recuperation mode after an operation. So I've been catching up on some QAF reading ( Read more... )

These are just some random thoughts going through my mind. No idea if anyone is still reading this stuff, but if you are and care to comment I'd be happy to host a discussion ( Read more... )

Hi everyone

Just to let you know that the wonderful mander3_swish has come up with a brilliant idea for this year's gift exchange (on the qaf-giftxchnge community ( Read more... )

It occurred to me the other day that there may be people who are reading my stories who wonder why I'm so mean to, and negative about, the Michael character ( Read more... )

One of the projects I've been working on for the last few weeks is doing at least a little to help put together the transcripts of most of the Gale and Randy sessions from Bilbao. The main drive for this came from mytearsinheaven and most of the work was done by the amazing kinwad who is hosting the transcripts on her livejournal. I was lucky enough to help with one ( Read more... )

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Ignore my abysmal typing (I should never try to type anything longer than two words from my phone).  But here is a F/B conversation with the lovely Sheena Metal from earlier this week.

So keep your fingers crossed, everyone.  Gale's last gig on her show was amazing.


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Somebody sent me a link to this article:

Why Do Women Love Toxic Gay Television Relationships?

asking what I thought about it. I want to thank her very much because writing this has crystallised a lot of things about how I see QAF (then and now) and why it fascinated me so much.

So ... what did I think about the article?

( This is the full response to that question (and be warned, I was annoyed by the article and some of the language that follows is ... er ... colourful. Worthy of Brian Kinney, in fact. )

So I'm here in Bilbao kind of excited but also strangely a little sad because in a few days it will all be over. Oh, well.

Meanwhile if anyone who can't make it has anything they would like me to try to ask any of the guys at the meet and greets please let me know and I'll do my best.